Should we red-shirt him? Will she be ready for a kindergarten that soon?
Red-shirting, which was originally coined as a term for college athletes who were kept from a year to improve their skills and to extend their eligibility, is an extra year for a child of starting kindergarten . It's most common with children who have summer birthdays or a birthday that falls very close to the school's cut-off date.
Whether it is at a child's advantage to be "red-shirted" is up for debate; But now, a new study indicates that students born in August and who are among the youngest in their kindergarten classes are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD.
Reporter Jenny Anderson writes for Quartz about the study, which was published this week by Harvard Medical School researchers.
Here's how a child's birthday can shape their experience in school: Imagine you live in a school district with a Sept. 1 cutoff, meaning your child has to be five years old by Sept. 1 in order to start school. This means that a boy named Lucas, who turned five on Aug. 15, will enroll in the same class as Jack, who will turn six on Sept. 15.
Jack has been alive almost 20% longer than Little Lucas. Developmentally, this is an eternity. He will probably have better self-control and need better things to do in school, like sitting still and listening for long periods of time.
"As children grow older, small differences in age equalize and dissipate over time, but behaviorally speaking, the difference between a 6-year-old and a 7-year-old could be quite pronounced," said study senior author Anupam Jena, an Associate Professor of Health Care Policy at the Blavatnik Institute at Harvard Medical School. What is normal for a five-year-old stands out as immature for six-year-olds.
The study found that in districts with a Sept. 1 cutoff date, children born in August were 34% more likely than their nearly-a-year-old September peers to receive a diagnosis of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. ADHD symptoms can include hyperactivity, inattention, difficulty sitting still, lack of focus or an inability to follow directions.
Personally speaking, my husband and I red shirted our son. He has a late-September birthday and in our school district, the cut-off date is Oct. 1. The closer we got to the time when we did not make a decision, he did not want to be ready-either academically or emotionally-to transition from two hours of preschool four days a week to full-day kindergarten a month before he even turned five years old And his preschool teachers made it clear that they could not have agreed more.
Luckily, we had the option (and the financial means) to enter him into a preschool program specifically for kids in this situation; it was five days a week and more academically rigorous than the regular 4-year-old program (but less so than a kindergarten). And even now, with my son thriving in second grade, I can not imagine he would be thriving in third grade if we had entrolled him a year earlier.
But having a choice at all is a luxury many parents do not have. Many parents can not afford another year of daycare or preschool. And one parent in our Offspring Facebook Group felt forced into registering her son for kindergarten in order to keep a variety of educational services in place for him.
"He was receiving preschool therapies through a school district program for some developmental delays (gross motor, fine motor, speech). Those therapies are at the same time that your child will continue with the therapies through the special school district, "says Jennifer, whose son turned five two weeks before the school district's cut-off date of Aug. 1.
"If I had made him wait a year, his therapies would have stopped and I would have had to pay off a pocket for three therapists for a year and then him re-evaluated for school district therapies, which they could have rejected. So sending him to school and having him grandfathered into the school district therapies was the only solution that really made sense. "
Because other parents chose to delay the start of the kindergarten, her son ended up in a class with a wide range of ages, which made her wonder: "Would he look as far behind if everyone just went when they were 5? Or is he so much more delayed because half of these kids were lucky enough to be able to wait? "
Other parents in the Facebook group say they have-or still are considering everything from a child's social and academic skills to how their physical size compares to their age. Some parents factor in their personal experiences of being among the oldest or youngest when they were in school.
Or there are some, like Matt, who are choosing what could be considered a compromise: "Our current plan is to enter a kindergarten and see how things go," Matt says. "Worst case, he repeats a kindergarten a second year. Every kid is different, so every parent needs to make the best decision for their family. "